Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Fingering

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Fingering
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Fingering is the manual (genital) manipulation of the clitoris, vulva, vagina, or anus for the purpose of sexual arousal and sexual stimulation. It may constitute the entire sexual encounter or it may be part of mutual masturbation, foreplay or other sexual activities. To "finger oneself" is to masturbate in this manner. It is analogous to a handjob, the manual stimulation of the penis. These sexual activities may provide sexual pleasure, whether or not used as non-penetrative or penetrative sexual activity.
Vaginal fingering is legally and medically called digital penetration of the vagina, and may involve one or more fingers.

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Fingering is basically where one stimulates the pubic region using one’s fingers (Usually between 1 and 3, if you haven't had sex before its 1) by inserting and extracting them from the vagina or inserting one or two fingers and making a "come closer" motion to stimulate the G-spot or by stimulating the clitoris. This can be done by the woman herself or by her sexual partner. Sometimes fingering can be done on the anus as well by inserting fingers, moving them around, etc.

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You might not be a virgin anymore. You said he used things? Virgin's only bleed when the hymen is popped..aka cherry. If he was being forceful it is very possible that he did take your virginity. It's time to tell your parent's love. Also never ever trust any man. They always thing with one part, and it's not their brain. Im sorry to be the one to tell ya this...But you won't bleed after penetration if your hymen has already been broken. You will if you have started your period, he may have scratched you up there, or he took your virginity because he was too rough with you. Only one way to tell is to get a pap smear and they can tell if you are or are not still a virgin.

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Using your fingers on a woman's vagina can reap amazing results — given that you use the right finger techniques. Of course, it's up to you to figure out exactly what your particular woman prefers when it comes to speed, tempo and amount of fingers.
So, today's tip is offering up a bunch of finger techniques that most women will love. Before you get to work, however, there's one thing that's certain: A woman needs to be revved up and ready to go before you can manipulate her vagina with these finger techniques. You can't just shove your fingers inside her or rub her clitoris without ensuring arousal first. So, remember to turn her on before you introduce her to your hands.
Here are some finger techniques that will surely press all her right pleasure buttons.

The rubber
The clitoris is the place to stimulate for most women. When she's adequately self-lubricated, or you've put some water-based lube on your fingers, use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clitoris softly in a circular motion. Her reaction will let you know that you're on to something. Continue your pace and slowly begin to increase speed. At no point, however, should you go so fast that you end up losing focus.
If she yells out something like "Don't stop!" then don't stop. Some women, however, like it when you take a break from the clitoris and proceed to insert those very same fingers inside the vagina at a rhythmic pace. Take cues from her reactions to see if she's one of these women.

The fastest finger
Does your woman prefer to have slow, exaggerated sex, or does she like to hop up and down on you like a bunny? If it's the latter, using your middle finger to go in and out of her at high speeds may be beneficial in the orgasm department.
For this finger technique, you'd be best served to position yourself in front of her vagina (that is, spread her legs open and kneel in between them). That way, you can keep your hand straight and ensure that your finger(s) is (are) going in at full capacity. It also lessens the chances of missing your target.

The helping hand
If you can manage to use both hands at different tempos, she'll keep getting wetter. While using the tips of your fingers on one hand to rub her clitoris in a circular motion, use the index and middle fingers of the other hand to glide in and out of her vagina. The multiple sensations will serve to increase her chances of reaching orgasm. It's not a race, however; you don't have to go as fast as humanly possible. Just keep a steady rhythm. If she wants it faster, she'll let you know.

The screw
In the spirit of the "fastest finger" technique, you'll need to use your index and middle fingers for this one. Again, sit between her legs and start off with the palm of your hand facing down. Insert your fingers all the way in, then turn your hand so that your palm is facing up and comes out. Repeat it as often as necessary until she reaches orgasm.

Tip: When you turn your hand so that your palm faces up, tap her clitoris with your thumb each time.

The G-spot indicator
Sitting in front of her with your palm facing up, insert your finger(s) inside her and make a "come hither" motion. Your objective is to try to tap her belly button from the inside, in effect, hitting her G-spot. Don't get aggressive right away, however. Start off slowly and, judging by her reaction, keep the same pace or increase speed.

The shocker
If you and your woman enjoy experimenting and you've explored the back end before, this one may be quite enjoyable for her. While you're using your index and middle fingers in her vagina, stick your pinkie finger in her anus (your hand must be sideways — that is, your palm would be facing her thigh). While you go in and out, both holes will be stimulated simultaneously.
Keep in mind that after you place a finger into her anus, you cannot place that same finger into her vagina — it may lead to an infection.

The slider
This finger technique needs good lubrication. With your index and middle fingers, start off by placing the tips of your fingers on either side of her clitoris, then glide down and make your way inside her vagina. Get back to where you started and keep repeating this maneuver.

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Manipulating the vagina to orgasm is not as difficult as you may think. Once you manage to arouse her mind, her body will follow. And of course, you should encourage her to be vocal about what she likes.
Until next time, keep those fingers neat and trim, and show her what you can do with them.

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